Breakup ? - Part 1

Incase you had read Stoner's blog about my friend, newest update is she broke off with her bf.
The one whom she had a 3 year old relationship with.

According to her, Her bf saw her SMS with the "friend" of her's.
Surprisingly , her BF nv criticize her or scold her at all. (I guess he can sense her moving away and away from him previously thats why not that surprise?)
In the end, they both agree to a breakup.
But i feel that the bf is actually very good to her.

He told one of their close friend that actually........ he want to marry her (in a sincere tone)...
Whenever i think of the scenario of him saying that after the breakup to other people.I cant help but feel sad for him.

1. At first, i started off being hopelessly craving for such romantic words and love. But as i grow older,such kind of words are giving me the insincere vibes. But to hear this kind of words in such a scenario... I cant help but feel touched. I guess I am starting to feel kind of "defrost" again. Haha

He told her that " Don't come back to me just because you feel sorry for me"

2.To me, to say this really hurts. How many people can truly say this when you are hurt? Most of the people I know love till no dignity. For such, I applause this guy.

My friend although now break up with her bf, did not jump into a relationship with the new guy

3. In this case, I believe that my friend is still sane. In a way, she didn't break off with her bf just because of the new guy. Anyway, a breakup is a breakup, does it matters what the reason is in the end? To me, no matter how good the reason will be, it doesn't lessen the pain felt by the parties nor will it change anything. If I know the reason, i will only feel worst. As i will keep thinking if i do this... will u come back to me.if i nv do this.....will we still be together?In the end only more trouble. I will rather believe that we breakup because u dont love me anymore.


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